Three Simple Activities to Prepare Your Child for Success in School

Experiences during the first years are fundamental in forming the person a child becomes.  And when it comes to a promising start to their school days, these are far more important than making sure they know their letters or can count to 20.

The experiences your child has during their early years are fundamental in shaping who they will become. From the moment they enter the world, they are soaking up information, building connections, and learning about themselves and their environment. As they prepare for the transition to school, what you offer them in these formative years can have a profound impact on their future success.

When it comes to setting the stage for a promising start to their school days, the experiences you provide are far more important than ensuring they know their letters or can count to twenty. Here are three simple activities that will nurture the skills they need to thrive in the classroom and beyond.

1. Encourage Play-Based Learning

Play is the most natural way for children to learn and explore the world around them. It helps develop critical thinking, problem-solving skills and creativity. By encouraging play-based learning, you are providing your child with essential tools that will serve them well in school.

How to Encourage Play:

• Create a Playful Environment: Set up areas in your home with different materials — blocks, art supplies or sensory bins filled with rice or water. Allow your child to explore these freely.
• Incorporate Role Play: Use everyday scenarios to encourage imaginative play. Pretend to go shopping, cook meals or explore the jungle. This helps build language skills and social awareness.
• Limit Screen Time: While technology has its place, too much screen time can limit hands-on exploration. Encourage outdoor play or creative activities instead.

Through play, your child develops foundational skills like teamwork, negotiation and communication, all of which will be invaluable in the school setting.

2. Foster Social Connections

Building relationships is a crucial part of preparing for school. The ability to interact positively with peers and adults helps children navigate the social landscape of the classroom. By fostering social connections, you are setting your child up for success in building friendships and collaborating with others.

How to Foster Social Connections:

• Arrange Playdates: Set up regular playdates with friends or family members to provide opportunities for social interaction. Encourage sharing, taking turns and problem-solving together.
• Participate in Group Activities: Enrol your child in classes, sports or community programs that promote teamwork and cooperation. These environments teach important social skills in a structured setting.
• Model Positive Interactions: Children learn by observing. Show them how to greet others, share, and express gratitude. Discuss feelings and emotions to help them understand different perspectives.

These social experiences will help your child build confidence and the interpersonal skills necessary for a successful school experience.

3. Encourage Independence and Responsibility

As your child prepares for school, developing a sense of independence is key. When children learn to take responsibility for themselves and their belongings, they build confidence and self-reliance, both of which are essential for navigating school life.

How to Encourage Independence:

• Assign Age-Appropriate Tasks: Involve your child in daily routines. They can help with simple chores like sorting laundry, setting the table, or putting away toys. This helps them understand the value of contributing to the family.
• Teach Self-Care Skills: Encourage your child to dress themselves, use the bathroom independently, and pack their own school bag. These skills foster confidence and preparedness.
• Promote Decision-Making: Allow your child to make choices, whether it’s selecting their clothes for the day or choosing a snack. This empowers them to feel in control and capable.

By nurturing independence and responsibility, you’re giving your child the skills they need to adapt to the expectations of school.

In the End…

Preparing your child for success in school is about more than academic skills. It’s about fostering a love of learning, building social connections and nurturing independence.

Through play-based learning, social interactions and opportunities for responsibility, you are helping your child develop the foundational skills they need to navigate the school environment with confidence and joy.

Remember, every moment you spend engaging with your child is an investment in their future. Embrace these simple activities, and watch as your child grows into a capable, curious, and resilient learner ready to take on the challenges of school.

Dr Kathryn Peckham is an Early Childhood Consultant, author and researcher and the founder of Nurturing Childhoods and the Nurturing Childhoods Academy.  Providing all the knowledge, understanding and support you need to nurture the children in your life.